refactor: Bump parse-server to 9.10.1, npm to 11.20.0, tar to 7.5.22, fast-xml-parser to 5.11.1, uuid to 11.1.1 and @tootallnate/once to 2.0.1 - #617

Node.js 20 is deprecated. The following actions target Node.js 20 but are being forced to run on Node.js 24: actions/checkout@v4, actions/setup-node@v4. For more information see: https://github.blog/changelog/2025-09-19-deprecation-of-node-20-on-github-actions-runners/