feat: harden dispatch live-use trust contracts

[galligan]

Summary

• Refresh App Server verification against codex-cli 0.137.0-alpha.4, including current stable/experimental schema counts and method deltas.
• Project useful stable request fields into the typed client boundary: native thread/list filters, thread/resume.excludeTurns, turn/start.serviceTier, and thread lineage metadata.
• Use native active/recent ordering for dispatch list --unmanaged and propagate configured service_tier to the initial dispatch new --text turn.
• Update docs, ADR notes, the dispatch skill, spikes README, and bump outfitter-dispatch to 0.4.1.

Validation

• just check
• just test-int
• uv run dispatch --version -> dispatch 0.4.1
• uv run dispatch schema new -> new, with service_tier schema present
• uv run dispatch schema "list --unmanaged" -> discover

Notes / Risks

• PyPI latest is currently 0.2.1, while main already declared 0.4.0; this PR bumps from the checked-in package version to 0.4.1 rather than reusing 0.4.0.
• Local dispatch doctor --no-app-server reports warn because the user daemon is stopped, the live registry is schema 3 < 4, and the app-server smoke was intentionally skipped. I did not mutate live Dispatch state during this branch.
• Remote-control pairing and fuzzy file search remain documented schema deltas, not productized Dispatch features in this PR.

[galligan]

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Merge activity

• Jun 10, 3:39 PM UTC: @galligan merged this pull request with Graphite.