src: officially deprecate `node::ObjectWrap` #7910

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 10s
aarch64-linux: Cache V8 build	22s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	40m 54s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	27m 23s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	29m 12s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-1.1.1w	23m 26s
aarch64-linux: with shared boringssl-0.20260526.0	23m 59s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.0.20	25m 19s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-4.0.0	24m 41s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.5.6	24m 32s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.6.2	25m 47s
	4h 6m 45s

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