src: officially deprecate `node::ObjectWrap` #7812

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 31s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	39m 5s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	25m 12s
aarch64-linux: Cache V8 build	29s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	26m 34s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-4.0.0	22m 53s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.0.20	23m 25s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-1.1.1w	22m 36s
aarch64-linux: with shared boringssl-0.20260526.0	23m 31s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.5.6	23m 30s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.6.2	22m 55s
	3h 51m 41s

Provide feedback