lib,src: updates for BoringSSL #6491

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 3s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	30m 35s
aarch64-linux: Cache V8 build	25s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	42m 42s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	27m 49s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.6.1	26m 34s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-4.0.0	26m 39s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.0.19	26m 18s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-1.1.1w	25m 24s
aarch64-linux: with shared boringssl-0.20260413.0	25m 49s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.5.5	25m 53s
	4h 19m 11s

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