lib,src: updates for BoringSSL #6379

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 26s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	26m 45s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	34m 13s
aarch64-linux: Cache V8 build	23s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	31m 46s
aarch64-linux: with shared BoringSSL	25m 53s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-4.0.0	26m 25s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.6.1	26m 15s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.5.5	26m 23s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-1.1.1w	25m 20s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.0.19	26m 54s
	4h 11m 43s

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