fix: Allow update_column to change required for list elements and map… #7512

Job	Run time
integration-test-gcs	1m 28s
integration-test-adls	1m 9s
integration-test	10m 24s
integration-test-s3	1m 11s
lint-and-unit-test (3.10)	2m 48s
lint-and-unit-test (3.11)	2m 44s
lint-and-unit-test (3.13)	2m 59s
lint-and-unit-test (3.12)	3m 3s
integration-coverage-report	32s
	26m 18s

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