Oxlint support: ESLint as optional peer dep for eslint-plugin-query

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Oxlint already supports many ESLint plugins, including @tanstack/eslint-plugin-query, albeit with this minor issue oxc-project/oxc#14557 which has a simple workaround.

@tanstack/eslint-plugin-query has ESLint as a peer dependency, and package managers like pnpm automatically install peer dependencies by default. Can we have ESLint marked as an optional peer dependency instead so it won't get auto installed for projects that don't use ESLint?

related discussion for @tanstack/eslint-plugin-router: TanStack/router#6706

[dotnize]

nevermind for now, see: TanStack/router#6706 (reply in thread)